[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.cortar.cz\/kdyz-dite-prilis-milujeme\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.cortar.cz\/kdyz-dite-prilis-milujeme\/","headline":"Kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 milujeme","name":"Kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 milujeme","description":"Pedocentrismus je p\u016fvodn\u011b pedagogick\u00e1 discipl\u00edna prvn\u00ed poloviny 20. stolet\u00ed, kdy se v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 c\u00edle pod\u0159izuj\u00ed z\u00e1jm\u016fm d\u00edt\u011bte. Pedocentrismus byl patrn\u011b reakc\u00ed<a class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.cortar.cz\/kdyz-dite-prilis-milujeme\/\">Continue reading<\/a>","datePublished":"2023-06-02","dateModified":"2023-06-02","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.cortar.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.cortar.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/1aa4d33840e2afc29128e2a456d425ca0d17b173c888af2db652b1d34fe6f93d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/1aa4d33840e2afc29128e2a456d425ca0d17b173c888af2db652b1d34fe6f93d?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"cortar.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"url":"https:\/\/www.cortar.cz\/kdyz-dite-prilis-milujeme\/","wordCount":480,"articleBody":"Pedocentrismus je p\u016fvodn\u011b pedagogick\u00e1 discipl\u00edna prvn\u00ed poloviny 20. stolet\u00ed, kdy se v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 c\u00edle pod\u0159izuj\u00ed z\u00e1jm\u016fm d\u00edt\u011bte. Pedocentrismus byl patrn\u011b reakc\u00ed na organizovan\u00e9 neosobn\u00ed vzd\u011bl\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00ed a krajnosti logotropn\u00edho p\u0159\u00edstupu (p\u0159\u00edsn\u00fd punti\u010dk\u00e1\u0159sk\u00fd u\u010ditel) \u0159e\u0161\u00ed krajnost\u00ed p\u0159\u00edstupu paidotropn\u00edho (p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 hodn\u00fd u\u010ditel).V na\u0161em p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b se jedn\u00e1 o situaci, kdy d\u00edt\u011b se stalo v\u00fdsadn\u00edm st\u0159edobodem rodiny a \u201epedocentrismus\u201c p\u0159edstavuje nebezpe\u010dnou patologii dne\u0161n\u00ed doby, proto\u017ee hroz\u00ed, \u017ee po tom, co na\u0161e p\u0159\u00edsn\u00e9 matky produkovali nadstandardn\u00ed mno\u017estv\u00ed \u00fazkostliv\u00fdch, zodpov\u011bdn\u00fdch, depresivn\u00edch neurotik\u016f, my, v uvozovk\u00e1ch hodn\u00e9 matky, vyprodukujeme nadstandardn\u00ed mno\u017estv\u00ed rozmazlen\u00fdch, nevychovan\u00fdch, nesamostatn\u00fdch sobc\u016f.D\u00edt\u011b je \u010dasto sice zahrnuto hlubokou l\u00e1skou, p\u00e9\u010d\u00ed a dostatkem, ale na druh\u00e9 stran\u011b jsem se setkala s term\u00ednem jedn\u00e9 pedago\u017eky: d\u00edt\u011b nedot\u010den\u00e9 v\u00fdchovou. Toto se v\u016fbec nemus\u00ed vylu\u010dovat.\u00a0\tI rodi\u010dovsk\u00e1 l\u00e1ska m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt dysfunk\u010dn\u00edNa kter\u00e9 rodiny se d\u00edv\u00e1me n\u011bkdy skrz prsty? Na dysfunk\u010dn\u00ed rodiny trp\u00edc\u00ed takzvanou soci\u00e1ln\u00ed exkluz\u00ed. \u010casto zakazujeme sv\u00fdm d\u011btem se s t\u011bmi jejich p\u0159\u00e1telit, aby se nezkazily. U t\u011bchto rodin se o\u010dek\u00e1vaj\u00ed nevhodn\u00e9 v\u00fdchovn\u00e9 rodinn\u00e9 styly, jako nap\u0159\u00edklad nedostate\u010dn\u00e1, brut\u00e1ln\u00ed nebo lhostejn\u00e1 v\u00fdchova.Ale pokud se v odborn\u00e9 literatu\u0159e zam\u011b\u0159\u00edme na p\u0159\u00ed\u010diny, kter\u00e9 mohou v\u00e9st k um\u00edst\u011bn\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte do n\u00e1hradn\u00ed rodinn\u00e9 p\u00e9\u010de, setk\u00e1me se tak\u00e9 s term\u00edny pedocentrick\u00e1 v\u00fdchova, hypersenzitivn\u00ed v\u00fdchova, preferuj\u00edc\u00ed v\u00fdchova, merkantiln\u00ed v\u00fdchova nebo perfekcionistick\u00e1 v\u00fdchova.\t\tPedocentrick\u00e1 v\u00fdchova je ta, kdy se rodi\u010d degradoval na \u00farove\u0148 slu\u017eebn\u00ed\u010dka. D\u011bti z t\u011bchto dysfunk\u010dn\u00edch rodin b\u00fdvaj\u00ed neobl\u00edben\u00e9 u u\u010ditel\u016f a d\u011bt\u00ed, proto\u017ee nedok\u00e1\u017eou druh\u00e9 lidi vn\u00edmat jako plnohodnotn\u00e9, ale jako sv\u00e9 sluhy.\t\tHypersenzitivn\u00ed v\u00fdchova je ona pov\u011bstn\u00e1 opi\u010d\u00ed l\u00e1ska, kdy je d\u00edt\u011b h\u00fd\u010dkan\u00e9, rozmazlovan\u00e9. Sch\u00e1z\u00ed mu v\u016fle, neum\u00ed p\u0159ekon\u00e1vat p\u0159ek\u00e1\u017eky. Preferuj\u00edc\u00ed je ta, kdy je jedno d\u00edt\u011b preferov\u00e1no na \u00fakor druh\u00e9ho. Prvorozen\u00fd na \u00fakor ostatn\u00edch d\u011bt\u00ed, chlapec na \u00fakor d\u011bv\u010dat.\t\tMerkantiln\u00ed v\u00fdchova\u2013 odm\u011b\u0148ov\u00e1n\u00ed d\u00edt\u011bte bez d\u016fvodu. Tato v\u00fdchova vede k sobectv\u00ed a lakot\u011b.\t\tPerfekcionistick\u00e1 v\u00fdchovaje ta, kdy se od d\u00edt\u011bte \u010dek\u00e1 nejlep\u0161\u00ed v\u00fdkon a rodi\u010d si \u010dasto kompenzuje sv\u00e9 nenapln\u011bn\u00e9 touhy.\u00a0V\u0161echny zm\u00edn\u011bn\u00e9 typy ur\u010dit\u011b nepat\u0159\u00ed do roviny nez\u00e1jmu o d\u00edt\u011b, naopak lze vytu\u0161it v\u00fdraznou rodi\u010dovskou anga\u017eovanost, p\u0159esto mohou zdrav\u00fd v\u00fdvoj d\u00edt\u011bte v\u00e1\u017en\u011b ohrozit.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.7\/5 - (4 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Kdy\u017e d\u00edt\u011b p\u0159\u00edli\u0161 milujeme","item":"https:\/\/www.cortar.cz\/kdyz-dite-prilis-milujeme\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]